Would be Mistresses (Masters)



Yesterday a member left her club in Red Light Center, not because it was her wish, but because it was imposed by her Mistress (Master)… if we can speak of a “Mistress” (Master) in this case. Unfortunately a lot of people in Red Light Center think they are Mistresses (Masters), but don’t really know what they are talking about. They “play” the Mistress (Master) but are in fact manipulators or a sorcerer’s apprentice...

The first quality of a good Mistress (Master) is taking care of her submissive. A Dom/sub relation, in opposition to what most people think is based on mutual respect and not a fulfilment of repressed domination or sadism. The fact that a Mistress (Master) force her submissive to break up with her friends shows a clear weakness that only can be generated by jealousy or a feeling of impotence. This is not really the image we expect from a real Mistress (Master). De Dom/sub relation is an extension of a sensual play where respect is the key word, without being reduced by the effects of perverse and one-way manipulation. Becoming submissive to someone don’t mean that you need to repress your personality or your tastes, but it has to enrich you live through a sensual play. A Mistress (Master) who doesn’t understand that, has missed the essential. And even more if it concerns a love relation, it can in any case been build on this kind of blackmail.

We all come here to have a good time and to live our fantasies freely and not being the toy of some perverse manipulators.

So take care and try to make the difference between true and fake.


Ps. I highlight a situation, no names are mentioned, as a respect to the privacy of each user in Red Light Center. If you recognize yourself in the above description, then my statement reached its target.


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RLC Dilemma... Real Emotions in a Made Up Reality



Red Light Center is so realistic, so fun, so social, so intense,so damn sexy, that sometimes, the difference between reality and cyber can get quite blurred.

A friend of mine calls all online interactions “cyber-real”, meaning that while the emotions feel real, they are based on fantasy. Everything we do here is filtered through our own desires of what we want and hope for. We can’t really know much about the other person we are interacting with beyond what they have told us or put on their profile. All that information could be false. The 23 year old bisexual hottie with amazing, amateur looking pics, might really be a 12 year old girl or boy or a 67 year old man with no prostate. How can we really know? Hey, I might really be that 12 year old or that 67 year old. How would you really ever know?

I have been caught up in this emotional dilemma myself. I have made some truly wonderful connections in Red Light Center. Some are only pure lust. Some are just for laughs. But, some feel like so much more. Some of these women have touched me, my heart, in ways I didn’t suspect would be possible. The personal things we have shared, besides the smoking hot sexual fantasies, have felt so personal, and true, and honest. I have developed some big crushes. Maybe even feel love towards a few of these women. Some have told me they feel that way about me. I have literally sat at my computer, crying at the things I read, or felt. Sometimes I sit there, shaking, in the afterglow of mind crushing orgasms.

These wonderful women have opened me up sexually, and I have done things to myself I never would have dreamed possible from looking at text and pictures on a screen. I have been told I have persuaded a few women to do the same to themselves.

Sometimes I feel ashamed at the things I have done, legs spread, in front of my computer. Doing things I don’t think I could ever do in front of someone. Other times, I am simply amazed. And at other times, I feel like, this has opened up a whole new world for me, a new world of possibilities in my real life. I sometimes worry though that, in my “in the flesh” life could never live up to the cyber life I am having on Red Light Center. I have much stronger orgasms while on Red Light Center than I have ever had with a real life partner. That is a bit scary.

But I have to keep reminding myself, THIS IS JUST A GAME. It’s a place to come and play and live out fantasies that I have not (yet) and can not (yet) experience in my real life. But, these emotions feel so…real. I guess, they ARE real emotions. But, are they directed at…unreal people? Made up identities? Figments of someone’s imagination?

Should that matter? Love is love. Sex is sex. Caring is caring. If I am being emotionally honest, that is all that should matter. And I am going to take everyone else here at face value and believe they are who they say they are. I am going to take in all the good, and ignore all the bad and continue to have fun here and feel what I am feeling.

And I will keep reminding myself, this is just a game. This is just a game. This is just a game.

My sanity is very important to me. LMAO!

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The Age crisis!



Let’s face it – nobody in Red Light Center is the ‘right’ age. There are high schoolers, masquerading as adults, and college kids masquerading as ‘studs’ (hah!) or ‘horny women’ who are up for ‘anything’ (double hah!). Then there are the Golden Agers who are trying to relive their youth (who are they kidding – there was no cybersex back then – just fumbling around in the dark in the back seat of a roadster, hoping they could find the right bodily opening before they ‘burst’), and the post-Prime Timers, who are relieved to find an outlet for their jollies where no one knows that they are the reason the sales of Viagra and ‘wrinkle-free’ creams measure in the millions of dollars.

The largest group in Red Light Center, percentage-wise, may be the folks who describe themselves on the right side of their profile page as ‘bi’ or ‘experimenting’ , while on the left side, you read their true description: ‘Happily Married’ and “Have Children’. They claim to be willing to participate in almost any sexual activity ever invented (as long as you talk to them politely for 5 minutes, while they slip their panties down around their ankles and dig their vibrators out from wherever they are hiding them (or so they think!) from the kids.

THE BOTTOM LINE: In cyberspace, you are exactly as old as you feel, or want to feel. It might be your correct arithmetical age, or it might be decades off. Unless you joined Red Light Center looking for real-life relationships, IT DOES NOT MATTER! And if you DID join our cyber-community looking for personal contact…FUGEDDABOUTIT! There are on-line dating services which will do the job much better, and break your heart even worse.

So when I meet up with those ‘Married With Children’ (or teenybopper or senile citizen) types…I dig it - as long as they ‘float my boat’, and I float theirs in return, who could ask for anything more?


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Wedding movies from Red Light Center



More and more people get married in Red Light Center. Thought it was time We had a look of a few wedding videos :-)

Rich and Dani's Wedding:


The Wedding of Rebel_LS_TSR & LtStrk_Rebel_TSR


RockenRobin and LoneRed_Wolf's Wedding


Wedding of Sir_JoJo & MiladyButterfly


Spank'n''Slave Wedding


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Beyond Perfection and Hyperacceleration



WHY did we come to Red Light Center in the first place? S-E-X. Anyone who tries to tell you otherwise is loony, completely loony.

But it’s more than that, really. It is sex without any of the real life ‘baggage’ attached. And maybe it is Kinky Sex, which we can’t always find within the contexts of our daily world. And possibly Experimental Sex – those recurrent dreams we have – what are they really like? Could I possibly enjoy THAT, and with WHO (or sometimes even WHAT *giggle*). As an example: if the percentage of people in real life playing in BDSM equaled the same amount doing it in Red Light Center, there’d be a dungeon on every street corner *chuckle*.

But THEN: we make friends – some of whom soon become GOOD friends…and ultimately LOVERS. Does this ever happen in real life – Casual Sex leading to Friendship leading to (often extra-marital and/or illicit) Love? You betcha! Does it end in heartache and misery? Almost always. You expected Red Light Center to be different maybe? No, ha ha! But just like we usually do in Real Life, with our eagerness to embrace this new-found love and happiness, we forget about the ‘punch line’ that lurks around the corner.

BUT: If Red Light Center (and ALL the cyberworlds) didn’t mirror Real Life, would they be any fun? Nope – they would just be shallow ‘cartoon games’ that would bore us within a few minutes. You can’t have it both ways, sweetie… you have to take the good with the bad. Anyone who tries to tell you otherwise is selling snake oil, luv – and don’t you believe it.

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